The blue angels are practicing. I hate them. Call me unpatriotic, a noise-freak, etc. but screaming military jets messing up our skies bug me. Today the little boy I take of on Thursday was enjoying his swing when the jets screeched across the sky over his house. The poor little guy almost shit his pants (‘almost’ because I checked). He started shaking in his swing, his little heart pounding. I tried reassuring him, “Don’t worry, they’re just loud,” I tried reasoning with him, “They’re like a big noisy plane.” I tried empathy, “Are you nervous?” He looked at me with watery eyes, “Yes, they make me nervous.” I pulled him out of his swing and we went inside. “I not scared, I nervous,” he enunciated, clearly thrilled with his new word. He looked out the window warily. It was interesting trying to communicate with a two-year-old about fear. Clearly, he was disturbed by the noise of the blue angels. However, his lack of language left him helpless to communicate exactly what he was feeling. When I tried to talk strategy with him (“next time they come we’ll put our hands over our ears and look up”) he seemed distracted. Finally, the little guy curled up against me and we read book after book. I’ve never seen this kid slow down long enough to snuggle. Every time the angels went over the house he shouted, “I’m nervous!”