Friends


This weekend is filled with performing and parties (sometimes both)!
It is my pleasure to brag that I made the following with great pride (and mostly from scratch):
Cheese straws (puff pastry and parmasean)
Seasoned party almonds
Lite chocolate chip cookies
Hummus
Two types of dip (sun dried tomato and regular)
Brie wrapped in puff pastry and topped with apricot preserves
Pot stickers pulled from the bag and fried
Strawberries with real whip cream
In short: If you’re going to move to Australia, expect to be rung out with style.
Top this off with fresh bread made for a book club meeting tomorrow and you can find me spending the entire rainy day in the kitchen. I truly enjoyed it. And I even managed not to make too much of a mess.

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Hi.

Yesterday, I wrote a long personal post about a friend who has breast cancer. I wrote: “This is the vicarious nature we have with our friends. We latch on, we hang on, we experience and all the while we have side by side experiences with those we adore. We share, we care, we talk about our similarities as a way to navigate through life. And then something happens and we don’t have the experience…we can’t have the cancer right along side them. Instead we have to remain behind as they dive into this new part of their life.”

It was too upsetting. Even though this friend has been open about her health, I think I might have divulged too much and made it more about myself then, well, about reality.

The reality is breast cancer sucks major ass. When you learn a 27 year old friend has fallen ill with cancer it should motivate you to put your arm behind your head and start massaging your boob in circles checking for lumps. It should prompt you to take the plunge and get your first (or second or third) mammogram no matter how young you are. It should make you reflect on the health choices you’re making in your own life. It should make you hug those you love a little tighter.

This is all my friend really wants: “Please share my blog with the world. That’s why I have it. Feel free to use my full name – I’m about education. I have to make this somehow have a positive effect on the world. Tell everyone you know. Please do self breast exams every month! Please visit your OBGYN regularly!”

With that advice, I’m going to go feel up my booby and gain the strength to get my first mammogram.

Everyone knows about Vail…its big brother, Aspen, manages to stay just as well known but is largely associated with elitism and unattainability. Its beefy Colorado step-brothers (Breckenridge and Keystone), kid sisters (A-Basin and Loveland Pass), and secret love child (Copper) don’t hold a candle to Vail. As far as I’m concerned, Vail remains the most widely known mountain resort of the US (never mind its competition with Whistler as the Big Daddy of North America). It also recently received the title of Most Expensive Resort (take that Aspen!) and is swamped year round with tourists. When people asked where I was going on vacation I said ‘Vail’ (easily identifiable) but I was hoping to go elsewhere. While there is a certain amount of cache one has by saying, “I went snowboarding in Vail,” the reality is that Vail makes me cry. I’ve never had a successful time there, maybe it’s the mounds of skiers, rude international travelers, and the fact that one time I got tangled up in one of their shoddy, orange, plastic fences.

This is where our wonderful CO connections kicked in, specifically: Jodi. She and Josh met in 1999 at an SOS meeting (SOS is an organization that helps at-risk youth learn to snowboard) and have been friends every since. We’ve all been friends, truth be told, but I missed out on many of their earlier ‘weekend warrior’ trips from Fort Collins to the mountains in the early years. They slept in cars, parking lots, old cabins, all for the sake of snowboarding and teaching kids how to ride. Jodi is also an entrepreneur, a real business woman, currently heading Activity Sitters, a high end baby-sitting service she founded a few years ago. Having grown up in Vail, (not as a rich kid but actually a poor kid living in the mountains), she returned after college to have a go at making a living. The town home she co-owns with her bf and roommates is nestled in Avon, which also houses the Beaver Creek Resort.

The Vail Valley is filled with two types of people: The extremely wealthy and everyone who is making money off the extremely wealthy. The disparity is far greater then when we lived next door in Summit County. With rent, food, gas etc. at astronomical levels, cost of living is very high, but the pay off is that you get to live in the wonderful abyss: Far from highways, 9,000 feet above sea level, the terrain rocky and covered with snow peeks. The isolation is huge, as if you are squirreled away from all humanity with nothing but the mountain for entertainment. Going back up to the mountains was a test: are we really in the right place? Sometimes when I’ve returned from a long day of rush hour traffic I crave nothing more then the blinding sunlight at the top of a mountain. Sure, there’s no Nordstrom Rack, limited places to go out to eat, and a small pool of people to hang out with. However, your mind is practically forced to slow down as the demands on your time become very basic and simple. I can see why this is the lifestyle I chased after leaving high paced Seattle in the late 90’s.

I’ve never been to Beaver Creek, but because it was five minutes away from Jodi’s place it became not only convenient but a lot of fun. We enjoyed two bluebird days, filled with sun and decent groomed snow. I was clipped twice, first by a skier and the second time by an out-of-control female snowboarder. I’d forgotten the recklessness one experiences when you throw a bunch of tourists on the same mountain over a holiday weekend. I also marveled at the array of accents you find when your town is a melting pot, specifically from Jodi’s roommates who were from Milwaukee and had a very pronounced way of speaking.

Jodi’s two teenage cats, Tosh and Leo, provided endless entertainment as they galloped and chased each other all over the place.
Josh and I had forgotten the vitality that young cats have and marveled at their ability to PLAY (something Hobbes gave up long ago). Here is Josh and Leo spending some quiet time on the couch:

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Suddenly our toothless, chubby, old cat seemed pale in comparison to the sheer entertainment of Tosh and Leo. That is, of course, until I opened the door to our room in the middle of the night for some air. The kitties ran in and proceeded to chase each other in mad circles at the foot of the mattress. ‘They’ll settle down eventually,’ I rationalized, trying very hard to fall asleep. The pair did not settle down, in fact, I realized that they had isolated their chase to a single solitary circle that would not let up. I closed the door and opted for less air in the room.

We were extremely lucky to be on the receiving end of such generosity. Jodi’s bf is a sommelier (read: fancy wine expert) and uncorked multiple bottles of fancy wine for us to sample. Despite the altitude playing havoc on my system, I graciously drank some excellent wine. I also made a big meatball dinner for Jodi and friends as thanks for the hospitality:

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While driving back down the long winding highway away from the mountains I was reminded about CO drivers: no signals, tailgating, wandering over to our lane, high speeds, everyone owns a truck our an SUV. We sighed as we left the Vail Valley, certain we would have to visit again. We spent one last lingering night in Golden before heading out on Wednesday, my body immediately rewarding me with a Big Cold the second I stepped on the plane.

CO I miss you!

“TEXAS license plates? No way, we need a different car,” it was Saturday, Josh and I had been up since 5am and we were standing in the Alamo rental car parking lot. The sun was beautiful, blinding in its strength at 5,000 feet above sea level. Josh had waded through line after line, finally getting us a crappy American mid-size sedan for our Colorado trip. We had pre-paid for our rental car (the most expensive part of our trip besides the plane tix) through priceline but had forgotten that it was President’s Day weekend. EVERYONE had the same idea: let’s run away to Colorado where it’s sunny and there’s tons of snow in the mountains. The SUV’s were snatched up by eager New Yorkers, desperate for a slice of Rocky Mountain living–and driving. The forecast called for spotty snow but mostly sunny weather. Our sedan would be fine for the trip, but the Texas license plates offended me.

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“We’re not trading,” Josh informed me. “This car is fine…let’s get out of here.” He was right, normally stuff like license plates don’t bother me, but I was super tired and hungry. I conceded, “Fine then, I’m going to have to find some super liberal bumper sticker for the back window…something really over the top, like: ‘Abortions For All’” (quote the space aliens from The Simpsons). Josh reminded me that we would have to go to Boulder to find something remotely liberal (and that was not in our trip plans). While waiting for Josh to get the rental car (guarding our heavily packed bags filled with snowboarding gear) I had made small talk with a couple from Belltown. They were equally shocked by the sunshine and we talked about the usual Seattle related things: the housing market, the cost of living, renting versus buying in the city, and the weather (specifically: the rain). The couple abruptly left me to pile into a very nice rented Range Rover while I half expected Josh to pull up in a car the size of a jelly bean. Turns out it was a nice size, our snowboards fit and that was all that mattered–who cares if Coloradoans think we’re from Texas on this trip.

The sun served as a salve as we began our first trip on the old familiar highway. It was as if the coldest parts of us were warmed, the soaking wet cold from the Seattle winter was temporarily dried. We were breathless, largely from the change in altitude, but also from the flat expanse of land and endless sky. My nose immediately started whistling and my lips automatically needed chapstick. Josh and I went to a sketchy 7 eleven where the cashier neglected to ring up Josh’s cheap sunglasses while bitching to her friend, “I don’t know why she doesn’t come to work, I mean what’s up with that shit?” While traveling in the car I ate some of the worst cheese I’ve ever had (the texture was chunky) and began my love affair with water.

My aunt and uncle always lived outside NYC when I was growing up so the fact that they now live in CO is still new to me. I felt very lucky to be a guest in their lovely home and was thrilled when we busted out the spaghetti press and made noodles.

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The weather shifted from sunny and warm to snowy. The following day we went to Thornton where my bestest friend in the world lives. I hadn’t seen Courtney in three years and we immediately fell into a well worn groove of communication, locked in from years and years of confiding, gossiping, and sharing. Her son is huge (at all of four years old) and very sweet. Her husband, Lyle, and Josh chatted about motorcycles, work, and skateboarding. We ate stew, went on a walk, and watched the beginning of Flashdance. There is no way I could ever convince Court to return to the northwest, so I must be happy in the meantime with occasional correspondence and precious visits. Sometimes when I am running all over Seattle in my new, urban, lifestyle I miss Courtney deeply. When you spend the majority of your formative years with one person (age 5-22) they become ingrained in your spirit and you always miss them on some level. When pulling out of her driveway I realized I had no idea when I’ll see Courtney again and I cried in the car on our way out of Thornton.

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Stay tuned for Part 2 of Colorado (How I Love Thee). And check out my flickr page for more glorious photos.

A friend of mind from CO posted this amusing dialog on gender with his toddler:

If you still haven’t caught the Super Soft Rock Spectacular let this dance number from the show entice you:

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Sept. 28, 29
October 5, 6

Performances at 8pm Friday and Saturday nights
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$12 pre-sale with Brown Paper Ticket
Tickets are $14 at the door (Get 12 dollar tix by telling the bouncer: “On the Wings of Love”)
For tickets call 1-800-838-3006 or visit www.brownpapertickets.com/event/19374

As many of you know, I’ve been gone for almost a week doing the following: Attending the PDX Zine Symposium, celebrating my fourth anniversary in Seaside, OR, and attending my brother’s wedding. This was such an amazing, packed, week of wonderful events! Because over 500 pics were taken I’m currently weighing through them and posting them on my flickr page.

I’ll start at the beginning: The Zine Symposium
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Basically, my sister’s lengthy interview-bases zine, Ten Feminists, killed. She sold so many copies! Perhaps it was the hand painted cover and/or it was evident she had spent a year on it. She charmingly was selling it for a sliding scale: $3-4 dollars–even though it was worth much more. Everyone paid $4 and I felt like I could only fleetingly piggy back on her success. We sat next to the twins from Fuzzy Lunch Box fame who I wished I could have talked more with since the zine I traded them for is excellent! We also sat right next to the door with the handmade sign: Food. We thought we would get a lot of foot traffic if we sat near the food door but alas, it actually made us less visible.

I wasn’t as exuberant this year. Last year I was much more hungry for the ‘zine experience’ of meeting, shaking hands, trading (hoping to God it’s not a poetry zine), and getting to know fellow artist submersed in the DIY culture. Some zinesters were very friendly, others were reserved and obviously reluctant to trade. I looked up TugBoat Press who thoughtfully reviewed “Kindergarten Underground” last year and thanked them–also submitted “Kin” and “Ten Feminists” for review. (Incidentally, check out this spread on Stranger Danger Distro!)

I tried cute incentives this year…like giving anyone I traded with a flower pin. Some people were very into it but many seemed confused and unwilling to put it on. There weren’t any prints/tees that I HAD to have like last year. Sure, I rummaged around the bin of used t-shirts that had the 2007 Zine Symposium logo on it and cheerfully coughed up $5 for a gently used Old Navy Tee. There were really cute shrinky dinks for a quarter and plastic pendants I couldn’t resist. But the high quality prints, the quirky photos, a lot of that was missing this last year. Perhaps they were pushed out for vendors who were more ‘zine-y?’

I had a huge party on Saturday, my 30th birthday. It was an enormous success and many friends came down with the sole purpose of making art, eating cupcakes, and enjoying the brief sunshine. Check out some of these marvelous flower pins:
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Yes, if you click on the pictures it will guide you to my new flickr account. I took TONS of pictures and can’t post them all on the blog so I put them all on flickr. Check out the party pics and I’ll leave you with a just a sampling of the big unicorn pinata show-down in my backyard:

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Katie, Josh, Matty, and I went to local gallery, Viscosity, and experimented with the basics of glass blowing. We LOVED it. Seriously, we had such a great time. Sure, they did a lot of assisting, but we managed to get our hands nice and hot near the “Glory Hole.” From picking the colors, rolling the melted glass on the end of a stick, to blowing into a tube to expand the melted glass we each played a nice part in constructing our own glass float. I would highly recommend this class to anyone in the area!

My sister graduated with flying colors this last weekend from a very well known private art school in Portland, OR. We are rediculously proud of her and the weekend went by way too fast.

Gina is not only graduating but she is leaving for a THREE MONTH trip to Europe on Wednesday. Of course she’s not entirely prepared and we briefly hit the mall to look for supplies. The Portland mall scene has recently incorporated public service announcements with an education-y feel to them:

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My mother’s side of the family was there for the celebration; this includes two aunts and an uncle we only get to see on special occasions like graduations. We had an enormous dinner at a chinese restaurant in the Hawthorne district. We’ve been eating their food since we were kids and Hawthorne wasn’t such a hipster destination.

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My dad ordered ten dishes–half of them were very thoughtfully vegetarian for the vegan mistress of the hour. Sam and Erin had me take their picture a whole bunch so they could pick one for their wedding announcements. I feel like the one I captured at the Fujin was probably the best one:

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Sam bought Gina a half dozen vegan cupcakes from Saint Cupcake, the new royale of Portland. I hate to say it, but they rival what we have in Seattle.

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Sammy very thoughtfully treated me to my own cupcake experience after dinner. Here is Gina standing next to the huge story of Saint Cupcake written on the wall (it looks like she has a horn!)

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I’m so proud of my sister!  Stay tune for pictures from her stellar senior thesis entitled “10 Feminists”…and as a bonus here is my brother and my aunt sharing a beer my brother tapped from the fridge/kegerator in his garage:

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